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How to Plan an Appetizer Party Menu

Stacey Pirtle

by Stacey Updated: Dec 4, 2023

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A party isn’t a party without plenty of finger foods, dips, desserts and little snacks to nibble and share. With these 5 easy tips and 19 recipes you can put together a complete, well-rounded appetizer menu that is as satisfying for your guests as it is fun to eat!

A collage of recipes for planning a party menu with appetizers, finger foods and dips with a list of recipes to make and serve.


Finger foods, appetizers and dips create a more casual party atmosphere than a sit down meal. And let’s be honest, we all love a reason to enjoy a plate full of our favorite cheesy, salty, snack-y favorites!

But just because you’re serving appetizers and dips at your get-together doesn’t mean that your guests will go hungry. With just a little planning and a few simple tips, your finger food menu can eat just like a meal… or even better!

New Years drink collage

How to Plan A Party Menu

Planning your party should be just as fun as the party itself. Whether it New Year’s Eve, Christmas, game nights, girls’ nights or tailgates, here are 5 tips I use to plan my finger food menus.

  1. Anchor your menu with heavy finger foods. Think of them almost as main dishes. They usually contain proteins and will be the most filling part of your menu. Think sandwiches, meatballs, shrimp, skewers and the like.
  2. Consider your dips almost as side dishes. They come in to support and compliment the finger foods. So choose them accordingly.
  3. Always add a green or fruit salad to round out your party “meal.” Jello salads perfect for parties too. Think Classic Layered Strawberry Jello Salad or a fun Cherry Coca-Cola Jello Salad.
  4. Fill in the gaps with little bites, like spiced nuts, that your party guests can continue to snack on throughout the night.
  5. Finish strong with desserts! You know everyone looks forward to dessert no matter the occasion. So have a few different types of sweets your guests can choose from- cakes and pies are good. Cookies, bars and brownies keep in tune with the finger food theme. And don’t forget candies, even a snack mix!

What To Serve At A Party

Heavy Finger Food or Hor D'oeuvres

Shredded Chicken, ranch dressing, hot buffalo sauce and Hawaiian rolls make for unforgettable Buffalo Chicken sliders perfect for your next game, party or as a meal with a bowl of soup!

Shredded Buffalo Chicken Sliders

New Orleans Muffuletta Skewer Appetizer on a party tray

New Orleans Muffuletta Skewers

Three Peach BBQ Meatballs skewered with toothpicks.

Whiskey Peach BBQ Meatballs

8 natchitoches meat pies hot from the air fryer with easy thin, golden crust

Air Fryer Natchitoches Meat Pies

Party serving idea for Louisiana pickled shrimp

Louisiana Pickled Shrimp In a Jar

Dips with Veggies, Crackers & Chips

Ham and pineapple dip with cream cheese, green onions, pecans and mayo is a quick and easy appetizer dip

Ham & Pineapple Hawaiian Dip

A close up of a spoon in a dish of baked spinach artichoke dip with jalapeños to show the creamy, melted texture of the party dip.

Baked Jalapeño Artichoke Dip

pimento cheese ball rolled in pecans, bacon and chives and served at a party

Favorite Southern Pimento Cheese Ball

A dish of Louisiana Hot Shrimp & crab Dip

Million Dollar Shrimp & Crab Dip

Whipped Feta Dip with honey

Whipped Feta with Honey Dip

Salads

A close up of a bowl of tortellini pasta salad.

Tuscan Tortellini Salad

An close up view of apple, cheese, celery salad.

Apple, Cheese, Celery Salad

Snacks & Little Bites

Cheese Straws in a jar as a gift

Southern Cheese Straws

Easy Italian Marinated Olives in yellow bowl

Easy Italian Marinated Olives

scoop of honey spiced pecans for the Christmas

Honey Spiced Pecans

Desserts

A stack of 3 Hello Dolly Cookie Bars

Hello Dolly Magic Cookie Bars

A classic lemon square topped with a basil leaf.

Lemon Basil Squares

Image for Coconut Thumbprint Macaroons

Coconut Thumbprint Macaroons

overhead view of 2 bowls of ritz bits muddy buddies snack

Ritz Bits Muddy Buddies Snack

pecan pie bars turn traditional pie into an easy dessert

Best Ever Pecan Pie Bars

A party isn't a party without plenty of finger foods, dips, desserts and little snacks to nibble and share.  With these 5 easy tips and 19 recipes you can put together a complete, well-rounded appetizer menu that is as satisfying for your guests as it is fun to eat!

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